Women are not all the same, and neither are men. PLENTY of men don't want to screw strangers forever. PLENTY of men are not able to as they get older. PLENTY of men begin to want to settle down and raise children.

Some women do want to marry and others do not. Almost any woman who just wants sex can get as much of it as she wants without being tied down: Women have the clear advantage today in that area. More and more women are learning they really gain very little from marriage unless (like me) they can find a really good man. We do not need you for security or for sex or to have children. We ONLY want you if you are going to be a good partner, and most men frankly are burdens on their exhausted wives.