What a loser's perspective.

Good thing my husband didn't take advice from someone like you. He married me when one kid was about to enter junior high and the other high school. It worked out great. He loves my kids and now grandchildren, and they love him. By marrying me, he ended up with a loving family life. We've been married 18 years now and things just keep getting better.

I hope you start giving better advice or stop giving advice at all. You are toxic.