The truth is that some men — not all — suck. It’s like EVERY SINGLE TIME I mention that women typically do more housework, the man in front of me will announce he’s an exception because he does far more than his wife. Yes, I have personally met every outlier! I think what’s true is such men do way more than their dads did, so they think they’re doing great. If you ask their wives, it’s another story. Also, there’s simply no good way to share custody and money that pleases everyone. Everyone loses.