Parts of this are extremely familiar to me. Not seeing it coming, not being able to see any missed warnings. The sudden fracture you never would have believed possible. The good dad going bad. I’ve been divorced from my kids’ dad since 2002 and it’s still bitter AF. I literally never speak to him and haven’t for years because he’s still angry even though he was the one who wanted out and got out — he got everything he wanted so why is he angry at me?
It was the hardest thing I’ve ever endured and I truly thought I’d die.
But like you, I have a good husband today. My kids and grandkids love and adore him.