On the other hand, when I woke up this morning, my husband was standing there with a cappuccino and a lemon bar. He’d already given me a back rub earlier, after which I fell back asleep. But I chose my husband because he’s kind, loving, thoughtful, intelligent and caring. I feel like a lot of people are looking for the wrong qualities. (Don’t worry, it’s not one-sided. We both pamper each other.)