Omg, if the dad on leave isn’t bringing his nursing wife cold drinks or changing diapers or walking the baby so Mom can get a nap and doing a lot of cuddling and falling in love with his child, Mom doesn’t have a partner— she’s got two babies. The big full-grown man-child needs to be dumped immediately. Mom has her hands full with the real baby and the baby-man has got to go. Nobody needs dead weight like that!