My husband is Dutch. We consulted an immigration lawyer, but it was too expensive so we winged it. It’s NOT easy and it was still costly to pay all the fees. Still, the fiancé visa was “easy” in comparison. And YES, I had to swear to support him and had to sign paperwork stating that we understood we couldn’t use any sort of welfare even if we would otherwise qualify. And then I have to listen to all the g-d Trumpers complaining that immigrants are given everything,