Let me guess why you think we “need” men … to protect us against other men, right? Otherwise, no. We literally have no need of you guys. We will have you in our lives if you behave decently and treat us nicely. We love good men! Most of us are happy to marry a good man. You ought to be happy: If a woman chooses you, it’s because she actually enjoys being with you. If you want that, fix your issues.