It’s long in the past, but I’ll never forgive him for what he did to me and how it affected our children. It was all so unnecessary. If he wanted out, he could have done it without blowing everything up. It could have been merely hard instead of devastating. And there was no warning. To this day, I can’t see any signs I missed. Fuck that guy forever. I’m thankful to have a good, kind, honest, intelligent and loving husband now. He was there for the second half of my kids’ childhood and healed us.