I'm sorry you went through this. I don't know a thing about you, but I know you deserve better than that piece of shit! I am not saying infidelity can never/should never be forgiven. But this dude could not wait for you to leave him alone long enough to go screw a sex worker -- not just a sex worker, but most likely one who did not choose that line of work because it was her life's dream. He took advantage of a place where it's allowed to exploit women. There's nothing to work with there. There is no "I'm sorry, I fell into this situation." Nope, the sex worker made him do it. I am sure she just could not hold herself back ... He's a horrible person.