I'm listening, but I'm disagreeing, Johnny. You should be able to accept that people may disagree with you. You are not the last word on this, I'm afraid.

Men can give up right now on being needed. I don't care how badly you want us to need you ... we don't. We simply do not need you. So get over it.

Furthermore, you sound ridiculous when you state that I must never have loved anybody if I don't "need" someone. I think you're talking about something besides love. Maybe codependence, I don't know. But not love.