If you chose women solely because they looked beautiful to you, you ought not be surprised that things did not work out. If you will take the time to get to know women as individuals, the attraction will follow. When I was young, of course I liked cute boys -- but I often found that when I got to know an average-looking guy, he would appear better-looking to me the longer I was with him and the more deeply I cared for him. You'll never be happy if you judge people by their looks.