If life ever allows, I'd like to tell the whole story. It's not mine to tell, though. Lots of pain for lots of people. It's easy to wish the person hadn't transitioned or that the person had transitioned before marrying and helping have children. But we are all grateful their sweet children exist. I should add that most of the issues came NOT from the transition per se, but from other lifestyle decisions the transitioning person made that were far beyond what most people are willing to accept in their marriage, unless that was what they signed up for.