I wouldn't want anybody judging my mothering, because I rejected most of the norms. I don't agree with most western childrearing methods. No schedules, no crying it out, no formula or baby food. Unrestricted breastfeedging, no spanking, lots of baby-wearing ... I was THAT mom. Especially when I was a mom (my kids are 30-plus now) none of that was acceptable. No regrets, though!