I was seldom able to give my kids the extras I wanted to give them. They did get lots of love. I really wish I'd managed to teach them another language and give them music lessons. I wanted to take them on cool trips. You can only do what you can do. But I'll tell you one thing, I've HAD IT UP TO HERE with all the toxic positivity bullshit. You can do everything right and work your ass off and still be poor. Doing what you love and doing it well is often a good way to be poor. Ask me how I know!