Mar 2, 2023
I think it varies a lot. Everyone’s experience is different. My former BIL is grieving very hard for my sister, even though they’d been divorced for a very long time. I feel for him. We included him in the funeral and he even asked if he could be buried next to her. (The answer was yes, of course.) However, I can’t imagine shedding a tear if my ex-husband dies before me, and I wouldn’t consider attending his funeral. Too much bitterness between us.