I live here because my kids were minors when I married my European husband and I couldn't have taken them away from their bio dad. And now we don't want to be far away from the grandchildren -- plus, my husband is 60 and there's no way of knowing whether he'd be able to get a decent job in the Netherlands at this point. But man, do I feel terrible about all the ways my husband has to deal with my country's issues. First and foremost, the healthcare situation.