I helped TONS of moms and I saw very few with that size of breasts. I also saw very few A cup moms. About a 36-38 C or D was usual. The problem wasn’t attitudes about breast size; the problem was in wearing an uncommon size that stores didn’t stock. I did not see that women of color were any more likely to have a small band size with a large cup size. It’s a fairly unusual combination. Most commonly, women with a small band size also have a small cup size, and women with a large band size have a large cup size. There were women with a large band size but small cup size, but they were also outliers. I don’t agree that I painted her as a freak. I explicitly complimented her as a wonderful person. You read that into it based on your own feelings, but not based on anything I said.