I got divorced in 2002 and once I started dating, I knew what I wanted: a genuinely nice man. I dated around for a couple of years but then I met an extremely good man, and I called my dad that night and told him I was going to marry that guy. And in 2006, I did. He's kind, intelligent and honest. I hit the jackpot. The other things really do not matter much if you have those three qualities in a partner.