I feel very much the same, but honestly, that's exactly what they WANT. Vance i particular believes the role of women my age (post-menopausal) is to provide free childcare. Read Jessica Calarco's book. As she said, America runs on women, and other counties have a social safety net but America has women.
I can't give away my labor, though, because I'm still trying to catch up to wher I might have been financially if I had not devoted so many years to unpaid motherhood when I was young. My kids were worth it, but I've paid a high price and I'm still paying it. I'm telling you, I AM SO PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW!