I don't understand.

There ARE good men out there. I know because I am married to one. Maybe it's the fault of the apps, or maybe it's something else, but there has to be a reason you did not find a good partner when you wanted one and were actively looking for one. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places or you're looking for the wrong kind of man -- I don't know. If you're happy single, that's fine, but if you are indeed looking to have a good partner, something must change.

Don't ask me what. I know myself to be a good worker but I cannot find a job. I was always assured I would find one, but I gave up a long time ago because nothing I did panned out. It's all freelance for me.

Maybe somebody ought to sit us both down and find out how we're not managing to get what we should be able to find.