I don’t think you understand what name-calling is. Nobody called you a name. You’re claiming victimhood without being a victim. You think this is McCarthyism? Really? You aren’t being victimized here. On the contrary.
I hope you don’t act like this in relationships. If you do, next time you’re in one and things are going badly, show this transcript to your therapist so he or she can understand how you twist things and can help you.