I don’t think you understand that many women deeply want to have kids. My life would not have been complete without them. I never would have skipped having kids to make some kind of point. Instead, I did all I could to have the best and safest births, and I’ve published a lot about the subject. I 100 percent support your choice not to have babies but I’d have done whatever it took to have some. I’d have adopted if I were infertile, but I deeply wanted to experience pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding.