I do not want you to have kids! I am all-in on you never, ever, EVER having kids. Please do not. A vasectomy would be a great idea for you. I raised two kids and I absolutely love being a mom (and now grandparent). Nothing I've ever done (and I've done plenty) has been half as fulfilling. If you do not feel an overwhelming urge to have kids. DO NOT DO SO. There are enough of us who want/wanted kids and are motivated to do the best job we can taking care of them. There is no need for anybody else to have them.