I cannot relate to any of this at all.

When I've met my goals, I've been happy and fulfilled. But I haven't chased any empty goals. I do not see the point in them at all.

Also? You ARE happier when you get things you actually need. You just don't feel happier when you get extras upon extras. Going form $100K to $200K won't make you happier because all your needs were already being met with making $100K.

But going from $40K to $50K, as an example, will enrich your life enormously.

Stop chasing stupid goals.