I bruise really easily (I'm a klutz who often runs into stuff and I've often got a mark on me somewhere) but I don't remember EVER being bruised by anyone during sex ... wtf is wrong with that guy? It takes a lot of force to leave any mark beyond a hickey. This isn't OK. It's not remotely OK.

In hindsight, I wish when he'd said he wasn't looking for a relationship you'd have stood up and said, "Oh, I must have misunderstood what you meant when you said the opposite last night. Well, no point in wasting our time here! Have a lovely evening." I understand how in the moment you didn't do that, though.

That guy is a piece of shit.