I am married to a Dutch guy, and I've learned that the abortion rate in Holland is very low even though their abortion laws are permissive. People use contraception, and people accept that sex is a natural thing that couples do. Did you know it's even common for older teens to have their committed partner sleep over in the family home? It's understood that two 19-year-olds, for example, are going to be sexually active and it happens at home in bed with contraception, not in a backseat somewhere without contraception.