As someone who always wanted to have children, did have children, and considers her kids and now grandkids the best part of life: For God’s sake, DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AN OVERWHELMING DESIRE TO PARENT! (And to parent well.)
Not everyone should be a parent. I look around and see poor parenting everywhere. It’s not for everyone! It should not be the default.
There are enough of us out there who really want to raise families. We will keep the human race going. A little help with the high costs would be great, as lots of people who want to be parents and who would be good ones simply can’t afford it.